Becoming A Better Person

Becoming a better person is one of the most important things you can do in life. Taking an honest look at yourself, recognizing your flaws and changing them into strengths, is a journey that can take an entire lifetime. While you may never be perfect, here are a few personal development tips to assist you during your self-analysis.

 

Help Others

A great self help tip is to try helping other people out for a change. There are a lot of benefits to helping other people. Helping people will make you feel better about yourself and those people will be likely to assist you if you’re ever in need of help.

 

Action Areas

Make sure that you set up action areas in your home or office. These are places that are designated to one action each so that you can perform this action and then move onto the next one. You can set up an area for filling orders, an area for boxes that need to be shipped, etc.

 

Ask for feedback

Ask for feedback sincerely and frequently when it comes to personal development. In the office, develop a support structure of people you respect and know to give you periodic feedback on how you are doing with your development plan. At home, ask your family sincerely to help you achieve your goals. Be sure to accept any feedback as a gift, even if it is difficult to hear.

 

Be Humble

If you want to make progress in the area of personal development, you need to declare lowliness. You’ll want to learn all you can. Once you realize that you have only scratched the surface of all there is to be known. You can then focus your attention on positive growth and development.

Stay in shape

Exercise is a great way to focus yourself. Studies have shown that the connection between a healthy body and positive emotions are tied together. Activities such as running can release endorphins which in turn increase overall happiness. Exercise also helps to regulate the body’s bowel functions, providing a strictly physical benefit as well.

 

Persistence

Constantly working towards achieving a goal will eventually get us there. We just have to keep chugging or perhaps even crawling along and we will ultimately, reach our destination.

 

Take action

Remember that the only way to change something in your life is to take action and make it work. In an effort to improve yourself, you must be willing to make the right sacrifices in your normal way of life and thinking. These can be large or small changes, however, you must commit to each one fully, for a truly effective impact.

Whether you are cleaning up that junk room or studying for a final examination, use some method to keep track of how much you have progressed towards your goal. You might take digital photos of your progress and regularly mail them to a friend!

 

Resisting Temptation

Studies have shown that the designing and applying an implementation intention can drastically reduce one’s likelihood of succumbing to temptation, whether the temptation is food, a vice or even shopping. Participants were asked to write down and visualize exactly how they would distract themselves whenever faced with their particular temptations. At the end of the study, more than half of the study participants, reported that they were able to resist temptation when they used their implementation intention as guidance.

 

Don’t worry about what others think

Instead of focusing on how you perceive your body may look to others, focus instead on how your body feels to you. After all, you are more qualified than anyone else to determine how your body is or is not performing. Boost your self-esteem by looking for healthy activities and hobbies that satisfy both requirements of looking and feeling great.

Believe it or not, it is not just for making babies or having a good time with your significant other. It is a sure fire way to eliminate the stress that you carry around from your everyday life.

 

If you know what is holding you back, change it. Take a class on dealing with that topic, buy a book on the topic or see a professional to help you. Take action until you can overcome the problems stopping you from living your best life– you deserve that much and you should expect it!

 

Have some self-esteem

One key factor in personal development is adequate self-esteem. Be honest about your intent and true desires when choosing goals to build trust in oneself and improved esteem.

Break it down and set goals

One of the best ways to succeed at making big changes is to break it down into smaller and more manageable components. Don’t set out to run a marathon! Start out with running a mile, or a 5k. If you don’t set goals that are within easy reach, you’re bound to get frustrated by the lack of progress.

 

Seek purity

When aiming to develop yourself in a better way, you should aim to seek purity instead of eloquence. You want to discover wisdom that is the pure truth. You should try to avoid lies that disguise themselves as truths by using pretty words. Discovering the difference between a lie and a truth is essential for personal development.

 

Never stop learning

Your personal development never stops and that’s why it’s always important to keep learning. Use these tips to bolster your efforts to be a better person and a better you. Be gentle on yourself and if you find yourself going backwards, don’t despair. Being the best that you can be will take some time, but you’ll like the person you become.

 

Check out the video below for more tips on increasing your value.